Tutu Tuesday in Fareham: A Day of Twirling and Tea #tututuesday Let’s be honest, girls: a tutu isn’t just a costume; it's a state of mind. It’s about that feeling of utter joy, that sense of twirling without a care, that knowing you can conquer the world in a whirl of tulle. So when the invite to Fareham’s first Tutu Tuesday dropped in my inbox, you bet I cleared my diary. The plan was simple, beautifully brilliant: a gathering of women (and the odd, brave male!), clad in their finest tutus, for a day of laughter, dance, and tea. Forget your usual Tuesday blues – this was about channeling your inner ballerina, embracing the whimsical and enjoying a day filled with fabulous fashion and delightful company. From Princess to Modernist I must confess, when choosing my Tutu for the day, I was faced with an embarrassing amount of delightful options! It felt like choosing between a beautiful bouquet of blooms – there were so many exquisite choices. The possibilities are endless: Romantic and traditional white tulle, like the ones we all picture in our minds, those classic Princess tutus, perfectly graceful with a touch of whimsy. And then there were the modern numbers, a little more avant garde: tutus that defied all norms, layered and textured with intricate, daring designs. I, naturally, went for the classic – a powder pink princess style with a generous flurry of ruffles. Because who can resist a classic? Tea and Tiaras As we arrived at the beautiful little tea room, it felt like a scene out of a Jane Austen novel. The place buzzed with energy as women in a variety of tutu styles flowed in. A riot of colours, patterns and styles - some elegant, some bold, some playfully casual - but all, gloriously and unequivocally, tutus. There was a vibrant crimson layered tulle, a chic black velvet tutu with intricate stitching, and a shimmering blue tutu that looked straight out of a fairy tale. It was clear, we were all here to celebrate our individual expression through our tutus. We chatted over a delicious selection of finger sandwiches and freshly baked scones, indulging in our feminine rituals, just as society used to – and frankly, should still encourage. You can imagine, the chatter quickly drifted from work and children to the details of our tutus - their origins, their inspirations, and the tales we held within them. It was a unique shared language, a kind of unspoken understanding. After all, we all know the true power of a tutu - a shared celebration of feminine freedom and whimsy! A Waltz in the Ballroom Then came the highlight of the day - an impromptu ballet class led by a delightful local dance teacher. It was surprisingly challenging! Who knew balancing on one leg and gracefully flowing across the floor would be so much harder after years away from the studio? But what an invigorating experience! As the sweat and giggles filled the air, we were no longer just girls in tutus - we were ballerinas for a moment. And a pretty fantastic feeling it was too! The day finished with an enchanting waltz - a glorious whirl of skirts and laughter, our steps light and playful. There was such pure joy in the air. In those moments, amidst the swirling of tutus and the laughter, we all realised we were not just celebrating fashion, but celebrating life, connection, and joy. A Celebration of Self Expression Tutu Tuesday in Fareham was more than just a fashion statement, it was a reminder that self-expression can be fun, fearless and oh-so-pretty. In an era obsessed with social media trends and conformity, it felt empowering to dress up and express yourself creatively, without a care in the world. What is your go-to Tutu style? What's stopping you from rocking your inner ballerina? This was a powerful call for more Tutu Tuesdays – in every town, every city, in every life. So, let’s make this a movement! Get that dusty tutu out of the back of your closet. Dust it off, and get ready to embrace your inner ballerina, because you, my dear, were born to twirl. Don’t forget to join the fun! Let me know what your Tutu Tuesdays look like. Tag your photos and stories using the hashtag #tututuesday, and let's spread the joy, the glitter, and the twirls!